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If you’ve recently lost a loved one, you’re likely struggling with a range of emotions: loss, grief, frustration, and denial are common for those that have to say goodbye to someone important. For most, planning a funeral is a foreign, unfamiliar process. You likely have no prior experience with the details that come with orchestrating a burial, and dealing with difficult decisions during times of grief can be challenging. Be sure to avoid making these mistakes during the planning process and ensure your loved one has a service that honors their memory.
Funerals can be extremely expensive, but try to avoid allowing budgetary limitations to dictate the service for your loved one. While it’s understandable that you must stick to certain price guidelines, don’t let your wallet decide how you say goodbye to your loved one. With the right pre-planning in place and price comparison tactics, you can ensure the service includes the features they desired and give everyone grieving the proper chance to say their final farewells.
With that said, it’s important to have a financial plan in place. Did your loved one have a life insurance policy that covers the cost of funeral expenses? Perhaps they had a specific funeral insurance plan that provides funding for existing medical bills, hospice care, and burial costs. If not, you’ll likely need to find alternative ways to fund the funeral. As the average service can cost more than $10,000, many families find themselves reaching out for help. This can be accomplished through crowdfunding campaigns through mediums like GoFundMe, or done through local car washes, bake sales, or other types of fundraisers.
Don’t rely on phone calls to do the bulk of your funeral planning. Many appreciate the ease of calling funeral homes and asking for prices and services offerings. However, it’s important to do your funeral shopping in person to assure you’re getting the best quality for your money. You’ll want to ensure it’s a high-quality, professional facility, and meet the people that will be making the arrangements and running the services in person. The staff can make all the difference when the funeral comes; quality providers can handle a great deal of tasks and streamline the planning process for you. Finding ways to alleviate stress and make the process easier for everyone involved will be greatly appreciated.
As you begin making arrangements it’s important to compare similar services and products at each funeral home or firm. It’s important to look at the bottom line, as there can be similarly titled services or products that range in price depending on the funeral home in question. Families and friend swill find themselves comparing service charges and assume one funeral provider is cheaper than another, when in reality, the funeral provider may charge less for services but more for merchandise including caskets, floral arrangements, and more. A site like Parting.com makes it easy to assess prices of local funeral homes in your area, giving you the details you need to make an informed decision.
In times of grief, it’s hard to gain perspective. Remember, though, that you’re not the only one grieving the loss of that special person. Those who aren’t immediate family are likely dealing with their fair share of grief and sense of loss, but may not have the same support as you. Hosting a proper reception after the burial allows everyone who was close to or touched by your loved one to say goodbye and celebrate their life.
There are a variety of important decisions you’ll need to make when arranging a funeral. The right service can help provide closure, serve as a wonderful celebration of a life well lived, and help grieving loved ones come together to provide essential support during the trying days and months ahead.